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#RHOP is returning Sunday, and one of the wives is sending baby blessings to a former enemy, dishing on a fellow housewifeโs DUI and commenting on a Potomac photo scandal.
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Ashley Darby has been one of the cherry blossom beauties featured on the Bravo show since season one and sheโs grateful to be back.
As she prepared for season 9, she told BOSSIP that sheโs been reflecting on her incredible journey since joining the cast.
โSometimes I have to go back and watch previous seasons because so much has happened over these last eight years,โ said Ashley to Managing Editor Dani Canada while noting that she feels deep gratitude for the series thatโs chronicled her major life like the birth of her children, Dean and Dylan Darby.
โItโs truly an honor,โ she said with pride.

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As previously reported this season is introducing fresh faces; Stacey Rusch and Jassi Rideaux, and while Ashley admitted that she missed her close friend, Robyn Dixon, she embraced the change. โI love her,โ Ashley said of Robyn, โbut I have to respect the process.
According to the pageant Queen, Robynโs absence was deeply felt, especially during the seasonโs more intense moments.

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โRobyn has this energy about her,โ Ashley said. โYou can always rely on her to be the voice of reason. Sometimes there were a lot of unreasonable moments that could have really relied on some Robyn Dixon. Itust would have been nice to have her clear perspective on things at times but you know she was only a text away.โ
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Ashley told BOSSIP that getting to know new cast members, like Stacy, brought a fresh dynamic to the group, even if it started a bit rocky between them.

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โ Iโve known Stacy for a while because sheโs been in the DC area, but I didnโt know her in this way,โ Ashley told BOSSP. โI didnโt know all her nitty gritty. You know, I got all into her business. She wasnโt quite used to that, she wasnโt really prepared for it. But eventually, we got we got there,โ she added. โWe got to a good place. It just starts out a little rocky.โ
Speaking of getting into peopleโs business,ย Ashely defended herself from accusations of being messy, something #RHOP watchers have long alleged.
GirlโฆAshley still messy boots! #rhop
โ Cassey Burrell (@SportsChic42) April 28, 2024
Sorry haters, but Ashley isn’t going anywhere. Every franchise needs a messy housewife, and she’s been doing it flawlessly since S1. If you want to watch straight glamour/opulence with no drama/shade hunty watch Dubai. #rhop
She’s messy, bone carrier and she reads! pic.twitter.com/lJaBEK7kv2
โ Merce in the purse ๐ (@SlutFromDee90s) April 17, 2024
According to Ashley, sheโs not messy, sheโs a millennial oversharer who doesnโt dish out what she canโt take.
โI feel like we have a responsibility to our friendship group and to this process that we are going to be forthcoming. And some people may have a hard time getting in the groove. It may not be as natural to everybody to share all their business. I am a millennial, you know, I overshare, I admit that. So Iโm just ushering them into the way of being free.โ
Hit the flip for more Ashley including her thoughts on Karenโs DUI, Candiaceโs pregnancy, and THAT scandalous photo of Katie Rost and Chris Samuels.
One of the biggest changes this season is the absence of Candiace Dillard Bassett. Her rocky past with Ashley is no secret, but as Candiace prepares to welcome her first child, Ashley is expressing genuine happiness for her.

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โIโm so happy for her,โ she told BOSSIP. โWhen I see the pictures of her with her baby bump, sheโs beaming and glowing.โ
Despite their differences, Ashley believes motherhood could bring a new perspective to Candaceโs life, much like it did for her.
โI do think that if Iโd had the opportunity to talk to her during her motherhood journey, our relationship would have taken on a very different look,โ she admitted. Although they hadnโt mended things, Ashley still held love for Candiace, emphasizing that while they didnโt always agree, she valued who Candiace was as a person.
Ashley Darby Comments On Katie Rostโs Chris Samuels Photo
But while the emotional side of Ashleyโs relationships was unfolding, a shocking moment from the Potomac circle sent fans and cast members alike into a frenzyโKatie Rost posting a photo with Monique Samuelsโ ex-husband, Chris Samuels.
#RHOP Alum Katie Rost & Monique Samuels ex Husband Chris pose for a picture..#bravotv #messy pic.twitter.com/8nVSJbEKlR
โ The Gworls Are Fighting (@baddietvv) August 29, 2024
As previously reported, the unexpected photo caused waves, not only among the fanbase but also behind the scenes. Ashley revealed that while it wasnโt blowing up their group chat, it definitely made rounds on social media.
โFans were sending me stuff, and I was having a kiki with them,โ she laughed. The moment had everyone buzzing, and when Ashley finally discussed it with her friend Giselle, the two shared a similar reaction. โWhat in the hell?โ Giselle had said, to which Ashley simply responded, โGirl.โ
While fans speculated about the intentions behind Katieโs post, Ashley remained puzzled.
โKatie is a very interesting individual,โ she said slyly, noting that she wasnโt sure if Chris Samuels was a willing participant in the photo. โI donโt know if he got a little okey-doke,โ she mused, โbut it was definitely shocking to say the least.โ The incident left many question marks hanging in the air, but as Ashley remarked, โKatieโs back in Potomac, so I donโt know.โ
Ashley Darby Comments On Karen Hugerโs DUI
Elsewhere in the interview, Ashley also shared her candid thoughts on Karen Hugerโs DUI which will be heavily explored in opening episodes.
Ashely expressed that she immediately panicked when she heard the news about the member of her โnucleus.โ
โOh my gosh. It was like someone in my family,โ said Ashley. โโCause thatโs how I view Karen. Karen is in my nucleus. Sheโs one of my homegirls. I love her. So when that happened, literally my stomach, I had this gut feeling in my stomach, like everything just dropped. I called her immediately, I texted her. And unfortunately, you just play out the worst-case scenario in your mind.โ
โSo that was what I was thinking,โ she added. โSo then I had to call Gizelle because Iโm like, well, Gizselle is a little closer to Karen, so maybe she knows something. And then when neither of us really knew anything, we just started like spiraling.โ
She continued,
ย โAnd Karen, for her own reason, she decided to keep it to herself, which I have to respect her process. But certainly, for those of us who cared about her, it was not an easy thing to deal with.โ
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The Real Housewives of Potomac returns Sunday, October 6th at 8/7c on Bravo and streaming next day on Peacock.
Watch our exclusive with Ashley Darby!
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